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Letting Go of the Ideal to Love What Is: What Team Hoyt Teaches Us About Real Love
Statue of the Hoyts located near the start of the Boston Marathon in Hopkinton, Massachusetts Most couples begin their relationship with a dream.A dream of how love will look and feel — ease, laughter, understanding, and a deep sense of being known. But real life often interrupts those dreams. Illness, stress, disappointment, or simply the daily wear of life can turn that dream upside down. When that happens, many couples feel something must be wrong. Yet, sometimes what’s “

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Oct 132 min read


The Five-Minute Date: Small Moments, Big Connection
Dr. Jen explains the 5-minute date on Loveology.org It was a Thursday night. I had a full day of sessions, and dinner was a last-minute...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Jul 182 min read


Taming Relationship Conflict: Lessons from Cranes Herding an Alligator
Have you ever seen a few cranes herd an alligator across a street? You gotta see this It’s an odd sight. The cranes—delicate, poised, and...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Jun 52 min read


Hope Couple Travel Guide
How's your summer holiday plans going? Every couple dreams of that perfect vacation—the one where you escape from daily responsibilities,...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
May 144 min read


Healing After Hurt: A Hope-Focused Guide to Repairing Relationships
Every relationship faces challenges, and offenses—whether minor misunderstandings or significant betrayals—can strain even the strongest...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
May 62 min read


Timeless Love: What the late Pope Can Teach Us About Thriving Relationships
The world is remembering the life and legacy of Pope Francis this week in April 2025. We at the Hope Project consist of counselors and...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Apr 232 min read


Love Languages for Today
Validating and Enjoying Who Each of you Are is a Key to a Healthy Relationship by Dr. Jennifer Ripley I once had the pleasure of...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Feb 262 min read


Christmas Dating for Couples: How to Survive Christmas Stress Without Snapping At your Mate
How to date your mate during the Christmas Rush

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Dec 5, 20244 min read


Prayer of Examen for Couples
Many Christian individuals may invest in deepening their relationship with God by cultivating a practice of praying for His wisdom and guid

Sarah Haught
Jul 26, 20244 min read


Prayer for your Partner: Lectio Divina for Couple Relationships
There is considerable research that has developed to show that positive prayer for your partner has effects both relationally and spirituall

Sarah Haught
Jul 26, 20244 min read


Cultivating Intimacy and Communication Through Empathy
Cultivate intimacy and communication in couple relationships through empathy, just like Forrest Gump

Sarah Haught
Jul 26, 20242 min read


Accept the Things You Can't Change
How to accept differences that are unlikely to change in a relationship. Apply to Marriage Counseling.

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Jul 25, 20244 min read


Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love: What type of relationship are you in?
Understand your relationship, and it's history, using Bob Sternberg's triangular theory of love which creates 8 different types of...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Jul 12, 20242 min read


Stop This Game! I want OUT
Couple conflict is a circular pattern, and knowing how to stop the negative cycle is the key to a happy and healthy relationship You...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Jul 12, 20243 min read


How Can We Reach Forgiveness?
How to Reach Forgiveness as a couple

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Jan 25, 20244 min read


Financial Planning & Family Conflict: Making Sense out of Cents
A financial advisor and psychologist discuss families and money

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Oct 6, 202314 min read


Five Way to Take Care of your Elephant Brain?
Take care of your elephant brain to have a better life and better marriage

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
May 26, 20234 min read


Difficult Family Discussions, at Summer BBQs, Holidays or any day
by Nicole Urh, PsyD, Fellow of the Hope Project and Charis Institute We've all been there. The family is together for a summer BBQ, a...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
May 19, 20235 min read


Looking Back to Remember: Joshua Memorial and the Gilgal 12 Stones as You End Couple Therapy Well
How to End Couple Counseling Well

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Apr 3, 20235 min read


3 Things to do When you Need Help: Stop, Listen and get UNSTUCK
Sometimes we here at the Hope office get a call... we need couple therapy, and we need it now. When can get in for an appointment? Or we...

Dr. Jennifer Ripley, Ph.D.
Mar 28, 20234 min read
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